Thursday, September 15, 2016

Wavelength: Lesson Recap 9/13


Further proof that Bridget and Katai are on the same wavelength. T wrote a post on Tuesday about her lesson on Monday and my lesson on Tuesday (I hadn't read T's post before that lesson) was almost exactly the same.

Katai was wiggly, bendy, sucked back, and basically just being a naughty pony. Learning of course isn't in a straight line but she's been SOOO good this whole time since the move and recently with L as well that it just felt especially tough that she was so naughty. I guess I sort of figured that she was going to take a big step backwards once we started calling her on some of the small stuff she's doing but I didn't think we'd be back to tantrums.

We started off working on getting a good trot and actually got some REALLY nice trot. We also worked on leg yields and I easily did the best leg yields of my life, probably just because Jane doesn't realize how completely uneducated I am as a rider, just expected me to do them perfectly, and just kept telling me what I needed to do to get them perfect until I did.

It was an AMAZING feeling to get them right and the only reason Katai was able to do them was because of all of the work over the past week or so and based on the info that Jane's been sharing with me.

So far I know it doesn't sound rough but then, after a walk break, when we went back to trot she had a few pony tantrums and she hasn't had any in a long time. I was already feeling a little like crap about that and then Jane said that we were going to work on canter. I've known that when we address canter the first time it would be a bit of a disaster. Our transitions have never been pretty and with her in tantrum mode I was concerned. Then between the new way we're working with her, my own ineptitude and crookedness, and her being in that mood it was very interesting.

To her credit she never bucked (even though bucking is more normal) and she didn't seem to get as tight and tense through her back but it was a hot mess. A really hot mess with her trantering, gaiting, throwing herself against the wall, etc. I was trying not to be too negative about it after and Jane just said, she's got some tension but we'll work on it, but for some reason I just felt really negative about the whole thing.

In fact, over the past couple of days I've been having a tough time with it. I'll deal, it's not a big surprise or anything, but it's just felt more negative than it should. I think it was more the return of the tantruming, wiggly, pony mess and the fact that she was threatening to rear than anything else. It's been MONTHS since she's done anything like that and after how good she's been it just seemed like a big backwards step.

Oh well, I have a pony and a mare and this is pretty much what I signed up for. I adore her even on her bad days even if it is frustrating :)

6 comments:

  1. I totally get it, so demoralizing when they've been great for so long! I'm reminding myself to be grateful that this is now a super rare occurance where before it was nearly every day. Progress :)

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    1. This is one of my favorite parts of blogging. It's so nice to know that I'm not the only one.

      I agree completely, I'm so glad that this isn't happening every ride, the whole ride anymore!!!

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  2. I don't have a pony but I do have a mare. With opinions so I get this. For me, when there's a bad ride my brain starts thinking that I've been doing it wrong all alone and imagining progress that isn't there. That my horse will NEVER be 'good' and this is the rest of my life with her.
    I then have a glass of wine and go to bed and things seem better in the morning. :)

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    1. I agree completely!! It totally gets to me and I start to convince myself that we suck and will never get anywhere.

      The wine is a great idea ;)

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  3. I love the quote about God creating ponies, very true hahah! I agree with Teresa - wine helps :)

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    1. Me too haha, I may have to pick up some more wine ;)

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